Nobody teaches you how to use lube properly. It’s not in any health class. Your friends aren’t giving you tips. So most people just squeeze and hope for the best. Here are five things you’re probably getting wrong — and how to fix them instantly.
1. You’re Not Using Enough
This is the #1 mistake. Most people use a tiny dab and wonder why things don’t feel great. Lube isn’t expensive. Your comfort is priceless. Use more. Then use more again. The right amount feels like you barely notice it’s there — everything just glides.
2. You’re Using Silicone Lube With Silicone Toys
Silicone on silicone is a disaster. The lube literally dissolves the surface of your toy over time, making it tacky, rough, and eventually unsafe to use. If you own silicone toys (and most people do), use water-based lube. Always.
3. You’re Ignoring the Ingredients
Flip the bottle. If you see glycerin, parabens, chlorhexidine, or propylene glycol near the top of the list — put it back. These can cause irritation, yeast infections, and bacterial imbalances. You deserve better ingredients on your most sensitive skin than what you’d find in a gas station hand soap.
4. You’re Not Reapplying
Water-based lube can dry out during longer sessions. That’s normal. It’s not a flaw — it’s physics. The fix? Keep it within arm’s reach and reapply when needed. Or, if you’re using KinkiLube, mix it thicker from the start and it’ll last significantly longer.
5. You’re Buying the Same One Your Ex Used
Just because someone else liked a lube doesn’t mean it’s right for you. Bodies are different. Preferences are different. Try a few options until you find YOUR thing. Life’s too short for mediocre lube.
